“Now your attitudes and thoughts must all be constantly changing for the better. Yes, you must be a new and different person, holy and good. Clothe yourself with this new nature.” Ephesians 4:23-24
How do we change our thoughts? How do we change our way of thinking? This was really baffling to me and to be quite honest, I didn’t believe it. After all, I am who I am, right? I have no control over what thought pops into my head. I mean, I must have million thoughts a day. How in the world can a person change the way they think? I can’t control that…or can I?
We have so much more power over our minds than we realize! The devil will try and convince you of just the opposite. Don’t believe it! It’s a lie! We don’t have to settle for “I was born this way”. For many, may years I was stuck in a mindset that was shaped by the dysfunction around me and by the choices I made. My views and perspective on things weren’t right. It’s understandable why I thought the way I did, but it wasn’t right thinking. It didn’t bring glory to God.
Joyce Meyer, author and world-known teacher/evangelist says,
“Your problem is really not your problem, it’s your attitude toward your problem that’s the problem”.
In other words, our perspective, how we see things. It was pretty clear to me that I was an out-of-control addict for many years. I was born with it. I couldn’t help it. It’s just who I am and how I’m made. I don’t know anything different. I’ve tried to change but it doesn’t work. I told myself these things on a daily basis. Yes, I hated it, but couldn’t change it. Why? Because I had to have a renewed, God-like thinking in order to change.
Be aware of your thoughts. If a wrong thought pops into your head, the Bible tells us to cast down that thought.
“Casting down imaginations, and every high thing that exalteth itself against the knowledge of God, and bringing into captivity every thought to the obedience of Christ.” 2 Corinthians 10:5
What this means is if we have a wrong thought we are to dismiss it and replace it with a God-like thought. This is where we “choose” our thoughts. I have found that memorizing a Bible verse and saying it to myself (or out loud) will usually dispel the bad thought pretty quickly.
Saturate you mind with reading God’s Word. If you are super busy mom or a person with no real time to sit and read, get some post it notes. Write some scriptures on them and place them around the house, on your car dashboard, around your desk or office. When you see them, read them. Say them out loud if you can.
God tells us what to think about. Philippians 4:8 says,
“…fix your thoughts on what is true, and good and right. Think about things that are pure and lovely, and dwell on the fine, good things in others. Think about all you can, praise God and be glad about it.”
One of the perks of thinking a new way is the wonderful peace that comes with it. Confusion and a wandering mind doesn’t come from God. Peace and contentment comes from God. The closer we can get our thoughts to align with His, we can have a healthier and more enjoyable thought life.